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Submitted by dinther on Wed, 2008-02-13 23:49.

Even though I very much enjoy the posts by the Solo guests, they take place in the house of Lindsay Perigo which has now repeatedly proven to be bully of the worst kind.

Not being true to yourself has been a reason for Lindsay to disconnect Solo members from their peers yet it is Lindsay himself who firmly believes that reason free personal abuse equates passion. I believe that is called emotional ranting and bullying.

I believe his behaviour is unacceptable and in fact I think it is Lindsay who should be told he is no longer welcome on this site. Yet it is his site so there is only one cause of action. I will have to leave and deny myself the great articles and insights of the rational Solo members.

The best way to defuse a bully is by stopping to give him any attention. As good or worthless as my posts are, I have removed them from this site as I no longer wish to contribute to the bully's powers.

It is not the message but the way the message is delivered that is the problem, only very thick skinned people can survive the abuse that goes around on this site. Abuse which I think is counter productive to the aim and credo of Solo Passion.

 

 


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"You've denied reality or

Fraser Stephen-Smith's picture

"You've denied reality or you're one of them- politically correct."

That's nonsense. All I've done is question your posts to determine your position.

I haven't looked at your links, and I doubt I will find time to. Let's be clear though, if any children were forcibly separated from their families without a court deciding that EACH child was in danger of abuse from their parents, then you and I should condemn the action.

I'm more than happy to agree (based on your most recent post) that separating SOME Aboriginal children from their parents was justified.

I am NOT arguing that Aboriginal culture is inherently good, and that we should respect cultural norms.

However, was each case considered by a court, or was a blanket decision made - for subjective political reasons - to separate Aboriginal children from their parents? I have not reserached the issue, but I find it unlikely that the head of the Australian government apologised in relation to cases of identified child abuse.


Without going into

gregster's picture

Without going into “alleged” occurrences and just dealing with this - “Aboriginal parents were abusing their children. Is this your position?” Of course that's exactly what I said. “Sure beats home on the range where the beer and the petrolheads play (with each other).“ I think before I post.

Marvelous Google serves us up:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uA6mn6Sif40

http://www.abc.net.au/lateline/content/2006/s1704472.htm “Sharon Duthie watched Lateline's interview with central Australia's Crown Prosecutor Nanette Rogers when she outlined the extent of domestic violence and child sexual abuse in some Aboriginal communities.

SHARON DUTHIE: I was starting to feel am I the only normal person here or am I abnormal and everyone else is normal because there was such an apathy. You would sew people's heads up at 4 o'clock in the morning, you'd come out and go back to bed and think nothing of it and you'd see people beaten. Then when I started seeing young children come through with what looked like sexually transmitted infections, I couldn't just sit back and do nothing about it anymore.”

http://www.abc.net.au/news/newsitems/200706/s1953073.htm “The Northern Territory's Family and Community Services Advisory Board says the issue of child sex abuse should be highlighted in the lead up to the Federal election.“

http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2002/08/15/1029113981588.html

“The government has referred the recommendations to a high-level task force, due to report in October. But it has immediately implemented the mandatory reporting of sexually transmitted diseases for children under 13.”

“Endemic family violence and sexual abuse in Western Australian Aboriginal communities was a human tragedy that was nothing short of a national disaster, Premier Geoff Gallop said ..“

And to answer your earlier point “Is that actually the other side of the story, or is it irrelevant to the point of this article about whether this apology is meaningful?” Yes it is the real story, “a political stunt and is completely vacuous.“ Paul began; “In fact, I have not heard any Aboriginal people on this matter at all. I think that the pro sorry sayers are more concerned about their own feelings than the feelings of the Aboriginal people. “

You've denied reality or you're one of them- politically correct.


"I'm sure you're not

Fraser Stephen-Smith's picture

"I'm sure you're not suggesting leaving children open to abuse etc. That is criminal."

You're right; however I have not heard anyone argue that the alleged actions of the Australian government were justified because Aboriginal parents were abusing their children. Is this your position?

I agree that the courts should enforce the criteria for abuse. The issue of what exactly those criteria should be is no doubt extraordinarily complicated; but I doubt the alleged actions of the Australian government could be justified by these criteria.

If the alleged actions of the Australian government were not justified by evidence of abuse, I suggest that we shouldn't be mealy mouthed in our condemnation.


Easy

gregster's picture

I'm sure you're not suggesting leaving children open to abuse etc. That is criminal.

There should be a hearing then a court order referring children to the care of a charitable organisation.

If they want them back they can prove they're worthy first.


"The state forcibly removes

Fraser Stephen-Smith's picture

"The state forcibly removes children all the time."

And is that a good thing or a bad thing?

For example a large proportion of the New Zealand electorate might think that anyone who writes as you do is a ruddy faced half wit who shouldn't be allowed to raise children.

Should they be allowed to enforce that decision? If not, who does get to make the decision, and on what criteria?


Sure enough . .Stolen generations story a distortion of history

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Then the piece below appears in the Saturday newspaper. What do you know? It could well be all lies.

White liberal guilt strikes again.

This marks Rudd out to be one to watch. He's already blathering about climate change and sustainability (what? from a socialist?) and now more lies.

A very evil man.

"5:00AM Saturday February 16, 2008
By John Roughan

The Stolen Generation

When you see history being written you realise how much of it is mere legend.

Australia hasn't got a particularly exciting history. Once you've read past the convicts it becomes quiet and constitutional.

The closest they came to a civil convulsion was a goldfields rebellion by drunken Irish miners, much celebrated today at the "Eureka Stockade", that lasted all of a Sunday morning in 1853.

They have nothing like the colonial wars in this country.

The displacement of Australia's ancient pre-colonial population was a largely private, casual and dimly recorded atrocity. It haunts the country's story rather than leaving a catalogue of battles that could be mythologised today.

So they have invented a legend from living memory. By "they" I do not mean only Aboriginal revivalists. The "stolen generations" story, now carrying the official imprimatur of this week's Federal Government apology, is as much a creation of white authors, journalists, film-makers, scholars and even jurists freed from the need of forensic proof.

Just about everybody now believes that as recently as the 1950s Aboriginal children were being dragged from the arms of clutching parents by cold-hearted agents of the state for purposes that could not be good.

I would believe it too if I hadn't read a paper delivered by a Melbourne lawyer, Douglas Meagher, QC, to a seminar in 2000.

His suspicions of the stolen generation story had been aroused when reading the 1997 report of an inquiry by a fellow jurist, Sir Ronald Wilson."

http://www.nzherald.co.nz/category/story.cfm?c_id=49&objectid=10492750


Assume nothing

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Of course the apology is a political stunt and is completely vacuous but oh, look at all these warm fuzzy feelings of those Ozzie hand-wringers.

Don't you get it?

I don't say that much but almost, yes. Not the race bit. What's your problem? The state forcibly removes children all the time.

Some people should not breed. Do you have a problem with that too?


"The other side of the story

Fraser Stephen-Smith's picture

"The other side of the story is the successful upbringings many of these dirt-worshippers may have got to enjoy."

So we can assume you endorse the forced separation of children from parents base on race, or at least sympathise with the idea, can we Gregster?

Is that actually the other side of the story, or is it irrelevant to the point of this article about whether this apology is meaningful?


I concur

gregster's picture

The other side of the story is the successful upbringings many of these dirt-worshippers may have got to enjoy.

Sure beats home on the range where the beer and the petrolheads play (with each other).


I"m sorry to hear this Paul

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I'm sorry to hear this Paul Smiling

 

Seriously, Australians will be sorry when the prospect of billions comes up surrounding that word, 'genocide'. I've already heard it twice on the mainstream media.


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